In a society where hustle culture and masculinity is seen as the appropriate attitude and mind-set to have, femininity has been brushed off to the side as being impractical or inefficient. Thankfully however, it has never been so easy to set yourself apart from the masses of masculine mannerisms.
In my own personal experience, I have incorporated these super simple steps and I have noticed again and again how easy it is to radiate feminine magnetism and how different the world responds to a woman who can master this energy.
1. Smile
This sounds so ridiculously simple, and it is! But think about it. Do you want to get to know someone who has a snarl on their face or who is completely cold or aggressive? I've never thought to myself, 'Wow, I would really love to talk to that person!' Smile. It truly make a difference.
We have all experienced it before. You are minding your own business, and some guy has the nerve to tell you to 'Smile.' You didn't even notice you weren't smiling, you were just wearing a neutral face. Yes, it's sooooo annoying, but they have a point. You probably don't realize how mean you look if you are not smiling. I know that I myself look so unhappy or grumpy if I just have my 'neutral face' on. I never even knew until I saw a picture of myself not smiling, and it was so unattractive! From that point on, I always made sure that I at least have a curl on my lips.
Have you ever seen a simple looking woman who radiated warmth, kindness and was always smiling? A person like this is very attractive, and oftentimes, (though not always), a masculine man would prefer a simple but feminine woman over a beautiful woman who has an aggressive or cold disposition. I have personally witnessed this over and over again and many times I see gorgeous women who complain they never get approached by men yet their disposition and body language is off-putting.
In my own experience when I smile, I instantly notice the effect this has on the people around me. Men of all ages will talk to me and engage in simple conversation and so will women. When you smile, your attraction skyrockets and it is incredibly refreshing to to those around you.
Keep in mind, there are of course times where you need to be firm and assertive such as a workplace setting, so you should always have discernment according to your circumstances. Overall however, having a pleasant demeanor is generally acceptable.
2. Surround yourself with beauty
Beauty truly evokes your feminine magnetism because surrounding yourself with beautiful things inspires you and it also inspires the rest of the world.
Many women these days don't have a lot of time to put in effort in beauty, which is perfectly understandable. We have to work all day, take care of kids, go to school, take care of the husband, maintain the house...it's endless. However, adding beautiful things to your life doesn't have to be hard!
Adding beauty can be as simple as wearing a lovely silk pajama set to bed instead of an old raggedy tank and shorts. It can be wearing bright feminine colors or putting a flower in your hair. Seriously though, put a flower in your hair and notice the attention you get. It works like a charm!
All of these small things add up and increase your feminine magnetism because simply put, it changes how you FEEL. Compare how you feel when wearing raggedy sweat pants and a t-shirt that everyone else is wearing and instead wear a fresh colored satin top, trousers and heels. How different do you act? How different do you feel? How inspired do you feel when you look your best?
Something that gives me inspiration in the mornings is having my favorite coffee or tea, and writing in my journal. What better way to add beauty to your life than with a gorgeous matching notebook and mug set!
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Back to my point. Everyone gets their inspiration from different things. For me, having a matching notebook and mug or tumbler that I absolutely love truly allows me to start my day with inspiration and excitement. Surrounding yourself with beautiful things makes you FEEL beautiful. Feeling beautiful inspires you and allows you to radiate an aura of confidence and feminine charm. It's all connected.
3. Wear skirts and dresses
Nothing makes me feel more feminine and confident than wearing a gorgeous skirt or dress that I love! In fact, I can actually FEEL the difference in my energy. I notice that I feel free, and playful, and youthful. Your energy will become magnetic because you start to embody your feminine energy.
Let me give you an example with my own experience. One day I was heading into work and I was wearing a beautiful ruffle skirt and smiling as I always do. I was heading to the entrance of the building where I worked, as were other men and women.
A couple of men were ahead of me and noticed I was some distance behind them. They ended up waiting for me so that they could hold the door open when I came through. As they were stumbling over each other and going out of their way to open the door for me, they completely ignored, (or just plain didn't see) the other women who were trying to get in too, and practically ended up letting the doors close in their face! The other women were wearing yoga pants, t-shirts, and staring down at their phones. I smiled graciously at the men and gave them a cheery 'Thank you!'
Now of course, I'm not trying to diss anyone who wears yoga pants or t-shirts, however, I am illustrating a point that when a feminine presence is around, it's hard for a man to see anything else. It's comparable to seeing a flower in a field of grass and it is absolutely magnetic.
Conclusion
Although our culture promotes and encourages masculine mannerisms in our everyday lives, increasing your feminine magnetism doesn't have to be difficult. Actually, because of the increase of this masculine attitude, it has never been easier to stand out from the rest of the crowd and radiate femininity!
By incorporating a few simple but effective tips in your everyday life, you can embrace and exude a beautiful feminine fragrance that is irresistible to everyone around you.
Smiling everyday is very attractive and shows the people around you that you are approachable and receptive. Surrounding yourself with beauty gives inspiration not only to yourself, but everyone else around you. Wearing skirts, dresses, or anything feminine easily sets you apart from the majority of the crowd who prefers a more easy or laid back style.
Add one or all of these easy tips and you will notice how the world responds to you when you allow yourself to exude feminine magnetism!